Sunday, April 09, 2023

Honoring Easter, Redux

This is the first Easter that has fallen on the 9th of April since 1950. It also happens that this is the first Easter that has fallen on my birthday while I have been alive and kicking such as what I call what I'm doing now, as kicking. More of an active shuffle would be more accurate.

If I was a religious man, I might feel the need to be indignant that God did not feel I was special enough to share more Easters with my birthday than he/she did.Well, God can breathe a sigh of relief. I have no issues with his/her offering me the cold shoulder. After all, it was me showing God my cold shoulder first.

In order to have aa happy birthday, I will refrain from posting the post I had wanted to. Instead, this is rerun of "Honoring Easter", a post I first wrote for Easter, seven years ago.

Hope you like it. 

"..... And on the seventh day God ended his work which he had made; and he rested on the seventh day from all his work which he had made."

"And God blessed the seventh day and sanctified it."  ~~~ From the beginning of Chap Two - Genesis

Grouped together to the side of the Church entrance in small clusters of 3 or 4, the ladies hug and exchange gossip while carefully checking out what everyone is wearing.  Their white gloved hands hold small handbags in one hand and in the firm grip of the other hand, the wild child from their brood pulls hard like a dog on a leash.  They speak in whispers and cast secretive glances at the women in the other circles.  Their Sunday bonnets  are carefully placed to accentuate any movement of their heads while starched dresses swish, sounding like a soft wind passing through a picket fence.


The men, stiff in their Sunday go to Meeting best, stand across the main walkway in small groups smoking and speaking in low voices.  Their macho affection is passed hand to hand or the occasional squeeze of a shoulder.  An irreverent laugh is heard from one group or the other causing some of the flock to purse their lips in disapproval.  How dare levity be allowed to break the solemn moments about to come.

A church elder opens the two big doors.  Organ music flows out to the crowd announcing this week's broadcast from Station WGOD is about to begin.  Cigarettes are crushed, ties adjusted, and dresses smoothed.  The two genders come together on the main walk and re-group with family and close friends.  They head into church to find their seats.

This is how I remember it.  Not this exactly. but something like this happened every Sunday in the first 13 years of my life.  And though my parents were haphazard Episcopalians, Sunday was still a big deal in my youth.   Such a big deal in fact, I soon realized at about age 8, that if this was supposed to be a day of rest to honor our creator, then why did we spend the better part of an otherwise perfectly good day not following the example he had set.  God was taking a breather, then by jeezus, so should we.

Spending an hour getting ready to go to church, another 30 minutes in the car to get to church and then an hour plus alternating from sitting to kneeling and back again.  Back in the car and another 30 minutes home ......... well, in my childish mind, this church going activity could hardly be considered restful.  Not for me, that was for sure.   Going to church was the most work I did all week.  The six other days of the week I was busy being a kid wearing holes in my knees and not washing behind my ears.  Church on Sunday for me as kid was an obligatory punishment like sitting in the corner at school.  Only I had done nothing wrong. I had broken no rules.  Why was I being punished?

When I grew older and decided that God really didn't keep very good tabs on us, I went my own way.  But just in case he was there and paying attention to the silliness of me and what I got into,  I hedged my bets and honored his command to not do anything on that seventh day of the week whenever I could.

On Sunday, Laziness is next to Godliness ................ That's my take anyway.

Happy Easter

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I plowed through more than a few bad Christian Metal tunes to find this song from Golden Resurrection. It is called "Identity in Christ". It aint great, but it is some of the best of Christian Metal I could find in less than an hour of browsing. I though a Heavy Metal twist on the Lord's message might make the message more palatable for me. ................................ Didn't work.


2 comments:

yellowdoggranny said...

christians stealing pagan holidays..pfft

The Blog Fodder said...

A very good description of Easter Sunday. Church was punishment for me as a small boy too. As an adult I went along to get along until I no longer could. I miss the singing but that is all.
My Aunt and Uncle were VERY strict about resting on Sunday. Their boys were not allowed to play sports. So when they came to our place on a Sunday, our activities were limited. They oldest was athletic and on the school badminton team. They went to a tournament that ran Saturday and Sunday. Their team was winning the tournament on Saturday, then on Sunday, my cousin refused to play and went home. Insufferable self righteousness runs deep in our family