What, you might ask, does this have to do with my brother? Well, the opening paragraph is maybe a lame excuse for having ignored my blog. Or it is a mechanism I am using to get warmed up to relate some personal pain I have safely closeted for over 25 years.
I have been estranged from my brothers since my mother died in 1990. She was the last physical connection we had going for us. There have been hard feelings over the years and when she passed, I blew my brothers off and got on with the rest of my life. In that I felt they had already blown me off, it seemed a mutually beneficial situation for all of us.
So now I am 26 years older. They are 26 years older. Maybe it's time for me to stop being an asshole. Not talking to someone because of real and perceived insults, denigration, and belittling in the years prior to 26 years ago seems kinda stupid. None of us have that many years left, and I for one intend to try to renew a line of communication to them that has been withering on the vine these past 26 or so years. As it turns out, holding a grudge after a certain period of time does no one any good.
Since all three of us grew up eating dinner while politics were passed around the table like another side dish, I figured I would start emailing my brothers using something we all enjoyed fighting over. What better way to renew old friendships than with hate and discontent about politics. That way we can, or should I say, I can avoid the personal pain that caused our rift in the first place.
Or I can just relay what is on my mind at the moment. Regardless of whether they read my emails or not, I will feel better about my self-inflicted silent treatment these past many years. Before we get planted 6 feet deep or scattered over some lake in Maine, I will try to learn about the third of their lives I know nothing about and maybe they will learn about my last quarter century trying to make sense of this madness we call Life.
Without any further fuss or commentary, my first dedicated effort to establish a dialog.
So D, I would be interested in your take on the recent farce being passed off as an election. Will the GOP regroup after Nov 8? Will the Democrats take lessons from the GOP's experience?
I have to say that from my seat here in the upper decks, the GOP leadership and the Religious Right look like a bunch of spineless waffling losers who do not practice what they preach. At least the Dems have been consistent and stayed on message. Whether one likes their message or not, they are not in self destruct mode as it appears the GOP is.
This election is a gift from Heaven for the media weasels and fear mongering political hacks on both sides. I have done my best to turn off the noise, the useless, petty bullshit being tossed back and forth. But it is hard sometimes, especially when I hear Trump or one of his surrogates open their mouths.
Of the many things I have learned over the years, especially at election time, two stand out.
That no matter whether I think the country is going to Hell in a hand basket or heading in the right direction, the country weathers the storm and survives to fight another day.
The other is that we can never go back. Nor should we want to. Somehow we always manage to keep moving. We stumble, fall down ,get stupid, but in spite of our best attempts to screw up a good thing, the system and free spirit we have show us a way through.
There is no need to "make America great again". We have never stopped being great. It is just the bullshit of the moment that makes us forget this from time to time.
I'll close now. Stay safe and remember to breathe. That is really what it is all about.
Your Pinko Commie brother.
There you have it. A baby step, but a step nonetheless.